Danielas wrote:and i am trying to wright my posts better, but grammer isn't my best subject.
Sorry to go off-topic, but this goes to my friend Danielas:
In a forum where people communicate solely by text I think spelling is important to bring a message across. When face to face with someone, you have body language and facial expressions to make your point clear, when on the phone you can use intonation in your voice, but on a forum the only way you can make anything clear is via text.
I think constant incorrect spelling is the forum equivalent of an uninterested attitude, even if it's not meant that way or if you're not like that at all. It just gives off the idea that you're not willing to put any time into what you want to say but just quickly type something down, hit submit, and go on with things. I understand spelling can be hard for some people, namely people who don't speak English as their first language, or dyslexic people or those with learning disabilities, and it can be frustrating, but if you at least show that you're willing to make an effort to spell correctly, even if you have to read your post over five times, that would make a much better impression on people and you'll find everyone is more tolerant about a few spelling mistakes.
I hope you don't take this the wrong way, you're an OK dude, and I don't mean to come across like I'm trying to just tell you what you're doing wrong, it's not my place to do that. I'm just letting you know how it can come across, so you can pay attention to that, I hope you use it to your advantage